Life-Giving Wounds / Healing Retreat

Life-Giving Wounds / Healing Retreat
March 17, 2023 - March 19, 2023
5:00pm (03/17) - 3:30pm (03/19)
Vallombrosa Retreat Center
250 Oak Grove Ave
Menlo Park, California 94025

March 17-19, 2023

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A Retreat For Adult Children of Divorced/Separated Parents

Dealing with our parents' divorce is not easy but confronting this wound with faith can allow us to find great healing. We hope that you will become part of our supportive community and receive the many graces available through this ministry.

Healing Retreat

Attending the three-day retreat is a great way to start this journey of healing. The retreat focuses on discovering our identity as children of God, although it also focuses on overcoming the effects of parental divorce, forgiving our parents, and connecting with others from this background.

This retreat has something for any adult child of divorce or separation, no matter how much healing you have received or need.

The weekend includes presentations, small group sharing, adoration, spiritual direction, and Mass. This three-day retreat is the centerpiece of this ministry.

Themes covered on the weekend include:

• Finding Our Deepest Identity
• Faith and Our Relationship with God
• Love, Dating, and the Sacrament of Marriage
• Loneliness
• Anger and Anxiety
• False Guilt and Shame
• Forgiveness and Reconciliation
• Family Boundaries
• The Christian Meaning of Suffering
• Healing and the Sacraments of Reconciliation and the Eucharist
• and more!


Fr Luke's testimony


Retreat team biographies


Dr. Jill Verschaetse 

Dr. Jill Verschaetse is a wife, mother, and licensed clinical psychologist. She is an adult child of divorce and a graduate of the very first Life-Giving Wounds retreat. Her clinical work has included therapy with individuals, families, and couples, as well as psychological assessments for those seeking entrance or holy vows in religious communities. Dr. Jill’s doctoral dissertation focused on the bridal identity of women and the ways in which early traumas (including divorce) can impact the development of their identity. She is passionate about the healing of hearts through the integration of psychology and faith and has a special affection for those who have suffered the wounds of divorce or separation.


Dr. Jill and her husband Dr. Nate are psychological advisors for Life-Giving Wounds. They live in AZ with their two sons (ages 4 and 2). Dr. Jill is privileged to currently spend most of her time at home with her children who both have special needs. Through her boys and especially through their particular challenges, God has granted knowledge of the well-spring of graces offered to families. Dr. Jill occasionally writes for the Life-Giving Wounds blog and considers it an honor to be a part of this ministry.



Fr. Luke Joseph Leighton

Fr. Luke grew up in Red Bank, NJ. He had a conversion experience in high school that led him to receive the Sacraments of Initiation at 15 years old. About a year later, he felt invited by the Lord to share in his priesthood. As a seminarian for the Diocese of Trenton, Fr. Luke attended Seton Hall University, where his knowledge of the faith and the life of prayer grew tremendously.

After graduating, he entered the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal and served in the friars’ mission of preaching the Gospel and attending to the needs of the poor in NYC for fifteen years. While living in the Bronx, he served at the Saint Francis Youth Center, Saint Anthony’s Shelter for Renewal, and Cardinal Spellman High School. Fr. Luke was ordained a priest by His Eminence Timothy Cardinal Dolan at St. Patrick’s Cathedral in May of 2013. He completed the Institute for Priestly Formation’s Spiritual Direction Training Program in January 2020. During his time as assistant chaplain at Cardinal Spellman High School Fr. Luke published videos on YouTube which can be viewed here.


Additional team members TBD


Before registering, please be aware of the following:

  • All are very welcome to join us on retreat whether you are Catholic or not, but please be aware that the content of this retreat will be Catholic.

  • A team of presenters will speak about this wound and its effects, and there will be moments for you to share your experiences with others in small groups.

  • As with all retreats, everything will be treated on a strictly confidential basis.  This is a spiritual retreat, not primarily psychological, but we will have a list of counselors available as a resource outside of the retreat itself for those who are interested.

  • Healing retreats pair well with counseling and/or spiritual direction. If you are not already working through this wound with someone, we would encourage you to consider it. If you would like a recommendation, please give us a call.

Begins on Friday (Mar 17) at 6:00 pm, and ends Sunday (Mar 19) at 3:30 pm.  Includes Holy Mass, chance for confessions and Adoration.

Registration is $425 for a single room, $375 for a double (shared) room until Feb 21.  Then prices go to $450 / $400.   Limited scholarships are available - contact Ed Hopfner

Life-Giving Wounds / Healing Retreat
March 17, 2023 - March 19, 2023
5:00pm (03/17) - 3:30pm (03/19)
Vallombrosa Retreat Center
250 Oak Grove Ave
Menlo Park, California 94025
Ed Hopfner
(415) 614-5547